S3E5 - Outside the Locker Room

The one about men's secret fears

It may not be too surprising why some men might choose to hide their fears from women.

But even when we men get together as friends, it’s still very uncommon for us to talk about our secret fears.

From how we look, to our account balance, to if we're still under 5 ft 5, to rejection, commitment, and disappointment, whew, can’t deny that there’s plenty for many men worry about.

One would have hoped that locker rooms would provide a safe space for men to open up about these fears but that’s rarely the case.

We all have fears that we spend a great deal of time trying to hide. But what happens when we make those fears the subject of a conversation?

Well, we sat down with another old friend, Folu, to find out. Folu is a business developer, amateur photographer and writer, and runs an amazing blog - foluoyefeso.com, where he documents his experiences and interactions with Nigerian places, people and plates!

Timestamps

• [02:55]- Your partner's history
• [6:59]- The other fear of commitment
• [15:20]- Men and emotions
• [18:17]- The beard gang
• [22:44]- It's all about the body type
• [27:38]- The threat of other men
• [35:45]- Mo' money mo' problems?
• [45:02]- The battles ahead
• [48:26]- Leaving a legacy

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